If you're planning on adding a new baby to the family there are some things you should consider. It's a joyous time, to be sure, but it can also lead to some tension if you have older children in the house.
It's easy to see that an older child may get jealous if they see you spending most of your time with the new baby. They may get angry and see the new baby as a rival.
What you can do is let your older children know that they are still loved. Tell them the new baby doesn't replace them and they love all their children equally. Show them you care by making time to spend with your older children and explain their new role as big brother or sister.
Why not take your older children out shopping for gifts for their new sibling? It's fun and will make them feel like they are part of the process. Let them pick out something to buy and present it to their new brother or sister.
Plan a special afternoon outing with your older children. Have some quality one-on-one time together. This will make know that they are still close to you and cut down on jealousy. Don't neglect any of your children for the newborn.
You may want to get something special for your older children to let them know they have an important job as big sister or brother. A special T-shirt is nice. When he or she wears it they will feel proud of their new role.
It will tell the world that they have a new sibling and are happy about it. It will make them less likely to feel jealous.
Whatever you do don't force your older child to take care of the newborn if they are unwilling. If they're not emotionally ready, accept it. It will probably change in time.
It's easy to see that an older child may get jealous if they see you spending most of your time with the new baby. They may get angry and see the new baby as a rival.
What you can do is let your older children know that they are still loved. Tell them the new baby doesn't replace them and they love all their children equally. Show them you care by making time to spend with your older children and explain their new role as big brother or sister.
Why not take your older children out shopping for gifts for their new sibling? It's fun and will make them feel like they are part of the process. Let them pick out something to buy and present it to their new brother or sister.
Plan a special afternoon outing with your older children. Have some quality one-on-one time together. This will make know that they are still close to you and cut down on jealousy. Don't neglect any of your children for the newborn.
You may want to get something special for your older children to let them know they have an important job as big sister or brother. A special T-shirt is nice. When he or she wears it they will feel proud of their new role.
It will tell the world that they have a new sibling and are happy about it. It will make them less likely to feel jealous.
Whatever you do don't force your older child to take care of the newborn if they are unwilling. If they're not emotionally ready, accept it. It will probably change in time.
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